If I could give a message to my previous self, it would be to take your time and not force it. It will be hard if your mind is not in the right place to get a job. But, when you are in a better place, try again.
When I was 18, my PA introduced me to Drive Forward, where I met Justin, my initial Careers Specialist. Justin was great; he tried to help me wherever he could, but I wasn’t in the right mental state at that time. I wasn’t being serious about the process, and because of this, I didn’t get anywhere.
I stopped using Drive Forward’s services, but after a few months, I was ready to turn my life around. This time, I was prepared to commit fully.
I messaged Justin and told him I was serious about my future.
Justin connected me with Daniel, my new Careers Specialist at Drive Forward. Daniel was also so friendly. I told him I wanted to get a job, and this time, I would put in the work. He sent me an opportunity for a three-day work experience position with Waitrose, and I went.
After three days, Waitrose asked me if I wanted a permanent job, but I would still need to attend an interview. The job was exclusively for those who had completed the work experience.
As soon as I told Daniel he begun to help with my interview preparation; he guided me and gave me points and examples of how I could answer questions.
The day of the interview arrived, and I was nervous. Sometimes, I struggle with confidence, and I find it difficult to make eye contact. My interviewer could tell I was nervous, but he told me I did well – he gave me the job!
Waitrose has been a perfect source of stability in my life. They pay me well, and they are also supportive of my ADHD. They understand that I find it difficult to focus when multitasking.
My manager said the person I was when I first came to now has changed massively. I never used to smile; I never used to talk to anyone; I just used to do my own thing. Hopefully, whilst working at Waitrose, I can continue to develop these skills so that one day I can pursue my dream of becoming an actor, preferably on Eastenders. Through Waitrose, I have already been able to practice acting, as I was selected to be a secret shopper at another store! Here, I had to act as a customer, but instead, I observed the operations.
Drive Forward, Justin and Daniel have all helped me on my journey. Through their support, guidance and encouragement, I now have my job, my confidence is growing, and I’m excited by my future possibilities.